Should I adopt a 2nd cat?

I spy another stray cat lurking in my yard. My current cat, Meeyore gets so angry when this new cat on the block comes around that she gets batshit crazy on the window blinds!  It was a little shocking and terrifying to see Meeyore in her fight mode!  She went from her sweet meows to ROAR! YEOWW!! BITCH GET AWAY FROM MY WINDOW! I love my cat.  I wonder how she would take it if I started feeding her nemesis? Yeah, I’m gonna start feeding that poor one out there. I already named it Helena....

On loneliness and healing

My boyfriend is out of town and I was home alone yesterday evening.  I worked out.  It was a good workout.  Slightly out of breath and super sweaty, I gulped down the entire glass of water.  I placed the cup on the table and looked around me.  Nobody was home.  It’s times like these when I have nobody to share my happiness with that I become overwhelmed with loneliness.  Still so many hours remain of the evening.  By myself. Naturally, I wanted to reject these feelings. How can you feel lonely when you have a pet?  (Well, cat is in the other room, sleeping.) How can you feel lonely when you have so many friends?  Did you forget...

My Thoughts on Me Before You, the movie

I waited so long for this movie to come out in theaters!  I read the book Me Before You by Jojo Moyes over a year ago and I absolutely loved it.  The movie followed the storyline of the novel exactly with some details left out.  I think it’s inconsequential to debate if the movie was 100% true to the novel, rather I think it’s better to view the movie as its own work of art.  I’ll try not to spoil too much in this review! Emilia Clarke plays Louisa Clark, a 26 year old caretaker for Will Traynor, a young quadriplegic (played by Sam Claflin.)  Their chemistry was amazing.  It was exactly...

On unconditional love

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I don’t mean to be preachy but writing down my thoughts is so meditative for me.  I’m a bit obsessed with all things people, psychology, the human condition, religious/ spiritual teachings and relationships. Society tells us so many different things on the “correct” way to do things.  The acceptable way to behave in society.  How you should contribute to society.  These are the qualities a decent human being should have.  What to look for in a man.  What to look for in a woman.  Be yourself, but follow these terms. I’ve stopped caring about what people think or have to say about MY life and how I should be living it.(Except...

What do I really want?

Sometimes I find myself dangling on the edge of a cliff.  Not a real one, obviously.  And the stupid thing is, nobody even pushed me or anything.  I kind of put myself there.  After two and a half years of being in my current relationship, I find myself clinging so hard to the love that could be vanishing. I would push and push harder until he withdraws.  This is really harming my spiritual growth. Like the other day, while we were doing laundry, I asked him to take a walk with me to Starbucks.  He said, “Neh.”  Logically, knowing him, I should have interpreted it as- “no thanks, I don’t even like coffee...

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